1. You’re doing this because God called you to this.
There’s no way around it: you’re in pastoral ministry primarily because of the call of God on your life. Being a pastor didn’t begin with you. It began with God, who created you with gifts for this task. If you can’t clearly describe this call of God on your life, perhaps pastoral ministry is simply about what you want to do rather than what God is calling you to do.
Ministry is taxing on pastors. It calls for sacrifices that your entire family will have to accept. When you get discouraged (which all pastors do), remember that God obviously believes you’re up to the task or else God would not have called you. Your strength is not your own, but God’s. Ensuring that our own relationship with Christ is growing and thriving is one way to made it through the hardships of ministry; hardships that are, actually, a joy.
2. If you see the work of a pastor as a career, you’re no longer in ministry.
My heart breaks for pastors who see themselves in a pastoral career. A career is for those who are pursuing monetary gain through an occupational profession. Ministry, conversely, is a vocation. It’s about serving Christ first and worrying about compensation later. If we see one church as a step towards another, we’re not in ministry because we’re just using people to get to other, seemingly more important, congregations. Ministering to people should be an end in itself, not a selfish means to another end.
I’ve always entered a new pastorate with the idea that it would be my last one until I retired. In that way, I’ve been able to fully invest in the congregation and surrounding community and not look past them for what better church might be down the road. The people in the pews are smart enough to know if your heart and focus are with them or beyond them.
3. Anything you do as a pastor is for the glory of God, so do it in a way that honors God.
In the Old Testament, God’s people were asked to present only the very best to God for sacrifices. In ministry, we should only present to God our very best, because God is worth it. Presenting a sermon or Bible Study in which we haven’t prepared adequately doesn’t honor God. Laziness does not honor God. Procrastination does not honor God. Giving less than 100% in anything, from answering the phone to greeting worship guests, does not honor God. Ministry is definitely a sacrifice, so let's present our very best to God.
It’s an honor to serve as a pastor. Let’s cherish this honor God has bestowed upon us by not, as Jesus said, give what is holy to the dogs. To appreciate the privilege of serving as a pastor is to understand that this requires a level of holiness and integrity that is above the standards others have. All Christians should honor God with their lives. Pastors, however, should honor God with their very breath.
4. You represent Christ before you represent your denomination.
I’ve met pastors who live to further the world of their denomination. I think they're missing the point of who we're supposed to represent. Those of us who are ordained certainly certainly represent the church that ordained us (and we should do that well), but Scripture tells us to represent Christ above all (Colossians 3:17). Denominations will come and go, but Almighty God is eternal. When we minister in a hospital or in a prison, we do so ultimately in the name of Jesus, not in the name of our denomination.
With all that in mind, knowing how to work with denominational leadership is important, for if we cannot live in obedience to them, it’s going to be difficult for us to live in obedience to Christ. We honor Christ by honoring the vows we made before God at our ordination. Living or doing ministry in a way that violates our denominational covenant is breaking a vow we made before Almighty God, and it does not set a good example to the congregations we serve.
5. We should never think we’re too important to take out the trash.
With all the emphasis on leadership in the church today, pastors can forget that as Christians and followers of Jesus, we’re still called to follow before we’re called to lead. It was not above Jesus to humble himself and wash his disciples’ feet. Just because we have a seminary diploma and ordination document framed in our office doesn’t mean we’re above doing the most menial tasks in the church.
Serving as a pastor is not about being respected, or honored, or revered. It’s about sacrifice, service, and promoting Jesus Christ, not ourselves. One medieval saint wrote that we should “love to be unknown and esteemed as nothing.” That way, people will see Jesus and not us.
NOTE: To be ‘fair and balanced,’ I’m working on a list of 5 basic truths for laypeople.
(c) 2015 Michael C. Voigts